Stop Hurting and Start Living.: How to Move Beyond the Pain Caused by Others. Start the Healing Process and Start Being Happy !

Author:Bill McDowell [McDowell, Bill]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Published: 2013-12-06T08:00:00+00:00

7. Do not Make Yourself Available to Your Ex:

Avoid contact with your ex as much as possible. If you make yourself available to him or her, you will only give them another chance to try to win you back. It’s not about getting back with him or her. It’s about you and the state you are in. If you get back with him at once without giving yourself enough time to focus on yourself and think about the situation, you will only be putting yourself more at the losing end – again.

So, give yourself some “off” time. Think it over wisely. Do not answer his calls or texts. Change your number, if necessary. Change your email and social networking site accounts. Shut him off completely. This allows you to look into yourself more. Are you missing him so much that you cannot stand a day without hearing anything from him? Think about the situation. If it’s a third party issue, it’s time you realize if it’s worth a second chance or not. Your ex will certainly try to contact you for whatever reason. Discipline yourself if you want to forget him and move on. Get yourself preoccupied with other important things. If you make yourself busy, eventually your ex will stop bothering you and you will feel less obligated to think about him. This way, you’ll be able to move forward without any difficulty.

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